For many, Memorial Day weekend signals the unofficial start of summer – barbecues, trips to the lake and shopping the sales. But for us older retirees, this solemn observance often carries a more personal significance. In a world that sometimes seems to forget, this generation holds tight to the true meaning of Memorial Day.

For those of us who have lived through more decades, Memorial Day isn’t just a historical footnote, it’s a day etched with personal memories. We recall fathers, uncles, siblings, friends, and neighbors who answered the call to serve. Some returned, forever changed, while others made the ultimate sacrifice, their names forever etched in our hearts, if not on our monuments.

This isn’t about glorifying war, but about honoring the individual lives lost in service to our nation’s ideals. It’s about remembering the brave young men and women who never came home from distant battlefields, from the beaches of Normandy to the jungles of Vietnam, the deserts of Iraq, or the mountains of Afghanistan. We remember the quiet sacrifices made by families left behind, enduring unimaginable heartache.

As the years pass, it becomes increasingly important for our generation to keep these memories alive. We are the living link to those who fought and fell. Our stories, our quiet moments of remembrance, and our visits to gravesites or memorials serve as vital lessons for younger generations who may only know Memorial Day as a holiday. It’s our responsibility to ensure the sacrifices of yesterday continue to inspire gratitude and patriotism today.

So, this Memorial Day, amidst any gatherings or plans, let us pause. Let us reflect on the immense cost of the freedoms we enjoy. Let us remember the fallen heroes, by name if we know them, or simply in spirit if we don’t. Their legacy is our liberty, and their memory deserves our enduring respect and gratitude.